Monday, May 3, 2010

Question of the day: How can a person approach somebody w|out being considered "thirsty"? By: me & @supaflynfuchsia

I'm going to keep this short and brief. How not to be thirsty 101 by yours truely :

1.) Don't come at a guy like he's the best thing since camera phones (even though I am)

2.) Don't act like you guys are together when he doesn't even know you on a personal level. "Yeah girl, we talk all the time, we go to lunch every day" (only stood next to him in line at Carls Jr.)

3.) If you aren't "talking" to him, don't act like you guys are an item...getting attitudes when he's conversating w|other girls..."Why you talking to other chicks? Smh lol.

4.) Don't try and go straight into a relationship, just try and hang out, get to know em... instant clingy chicks scare me. Its like having an extra shadow.

5.) Once you guys exchange numbers, don't start calling all day like you're rent-a-center..."oh I just wanna say hi" *looks at clock..2:44? Blocks number, gets back to xrated dream*. Unless he doesn't mind. Learn to read people.

Just come at guys like you want to know them, not marry em and get their names tatted. If you act like a groupie you'll be treated like one. Don't be sad though, its not too late to change your "thirsty" ways *hands sprite*...untill next time, stay thirsty my friends lol jp...


Womans point of view by : @supaflynfuchsia

BE YOURSELF HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR BE A GENTLEMAN DON'T BE A CHEAPSKATE Some of the things that a guy can do to impress a girl without seeming"thirsty" is first of all BE YOURSELF!!! Seriously no one likes a poser, carbon copy, wannabe loser who is worried about what everybody else thinks about them. The best step in not being any of those things is to rock your own style, with your own way of doing things. If you are yourself and you and you have the "I don't give a fuck mentality" about it, you are sure to make an mpression with the ladies, or at least the one that really digs your style and likes the real you. Most women love a man with confidence It's nice when you can bring something to the table as far as personality too. So the second thing is HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR!!! Having a sense of humor is very mpressive. If a guy can make me laugh and isn't afraid to laugh at himself he's a winner in my book. And finally and probably most mportantly BE A GENTLEMAN! Show a woman that your mama raised you right. Yes open doors for open doors for her and walk nearest to the street on the sidewalk. Do not bombard her with unwarranted personal questions. It's always best to TAKE YOUR TIME to get to TIME to get to know her by listening, because it shows that you are interested in her not just trying to hit it and quit it. Most smart girls watch for red flags and thirsty guys be all in ya grill from jump. It's annoying and most of the time we won't ever talk to you again because it is sooo time consuming and consuming and et's face it who's really able to be themselves when they're busy playing 20 questions. Why don't you just hand her a questionnaire and make it official haha. And please whatever you do DON"T BE A CHEAPSKATE on the first date. If you don't have a lot of cash by all means suggest something less extravagant but don't ask a girl out and expect her to pay. That is all all. Happy dating fellas!

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